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8 Random Acts of Kindness

Ephesians 4:32 “And be kind one to another tender hearted forgiving one another, even as for Christ sake hath forgiven you. KJV

Kindness is a behavior that includes act of generosity, and having concerns for others without expecting reward or praise. Kindness is one of the main topics in the bible. Here are 8 random acts of kindness you can try.

  1. Send a family member or close friend some unexpected groceries delivered straight to their front door. I just recently tried this for both my parents and they were overly thankful. I was happy to be able to give to love ones.

2. Drop off a couple mini size personal hygiene products to a local shelter.

3.Share a friends blog post, or business page on your social media page. Share is caring.

4. Pay it forward, Next time your standing in line for star bucks drink offer to pay for the person behind you meal or drink.

5. Forgive someone who wronged you in the past. That’s right call them up and let them know that you forgive them for doing you wrong in the past. This will show that you are mature, above their level. You understand that holding grudges is a complete waste of your happiness.

6. Plan a surprise outing for a friend or your significant lover.

7. Donate money to a cause you support or a family in need.

8. The next time you are out dining leave your waiter a big tip

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My 2021 Goals

This year I’m keeping it real simple and making my goals more achieve

Focus and spend more time on my spiritual walk by spending more time in prayer and reading the bible and dwelling more on Gods word, because I know success comes easier when you live by Gods word.

Spend time doing something I always wanted to do Like take a kickboxing class, climb the highest mountain in the U.S.

Re-launch my online women boutique shop My woman boutique shop launched January 28,2021 and has been updated with new styles for woman. You can check out my new boutique here:

Be more grateful and thankful for what I have Embrace what you have and don’t dwell on what you don’t have. More blessings come when you walk by faith.

Stop Procrastinating Spending more time being productive and less procrastination. I’m so guilty at procrastinating and putting tasks off in the past. This year I been so on not procrastinating and more on prioritizing my tasks in order from most important to least important. I learned that procrastination can lead to developing a lazy mindset which can lead to failure in your life and business.

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33 Life Lessons I learned in 33 years

A list of 33 Life lessons I learned in 33 years,  in no particular order. ( This post will be periodically updated)

1. Every success adventure must include  God otherwise it will not succeed

2. Your never to old to keep learning

3. No matter how hard you work in life make sure you practice self care or otherwise you can put yourself on the edge of a  burn out.

4. Love yourself first.

5. Forget about the bad and focus on the good.

6. It’s okay to walk away from toxic environments, relationships, friendships, family, they will only keep you down and  hold you back from moving ahead at your life and success.

7. Be thankful for what you have and  don’t worry  about what you don’t have.

8. The more you give in life the more you will receive.

9. What you surround yourself around is what you will  become.

10. It’s okay to be friendly and say hello to others in public

11. Investing in yourself is the best choice to make in life.

12. Embrace your challenges & failures they prepare you for life.

13.Keep a positive attitude  in all life challenges this will help you get through them

14. Go hard to accomplish your goals in life so you don’t live with any regrets about why you didnt accomplish your dreams.

15. Never Settle for less then what you know your worth.

16. Forgive today because tomorrow is not promised.

17. Anything worth having doesn’t come easy.

18. You only get one life so give yourself the best healthiest and happiest life you possibly can

19. It doesn’t matter how, when, or where you begin all that matters is that you start

20. Money will never bring you true happiness

21.  Everyone is not meant to tag along the same journey  as you.

22. Be Patient with life and it’s unusual events

23.  Take Care of your Family 

24. Help as many people as possible

25. Excuses are for losers and failures

26. Never give up on anything you love doing

27. Your thoughts are powerful and so is your tongue, think and speak positive things

28. Still be kind to others who do you wrong

29. Grudges are a complete waste of happiness.

30. Always follow your gut instinct  9/10 your instincts are right.

31. Pray daily and humble yourself

32.  Love is more then a feeling its a choice and it starts within you.

33.  If your not happy in any situation rather if its a job, relationship, friendship, career. Kick that to the left and move on.










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4 P’s of Success

Positive practice in our thoughts and attitudes are important to our success

-Have a purpose higher than yourself

-Get rid of negative people in your life

-Use positive words

-Don’t Fear Failure

Living a life fully engaged with the principles of peace, and wealth, spoken in the bible so that we may thrive with good fortune, happiness, and wealth.

-Seek God in everything that you do

-Seek righteousness

-Develop your faith and trust in God

-Keep his commandments and work his ways

What is your purpose in life?

Why is success important to you?

How would success be important to you in your life?

Your purpose helps you to focus on things that are meaningful to you and shift you to move ahead and enjoy life.

Your onward movement toward your success is all that matter, “Don’t Worry about the perfection focus on the progress.”

-Determine why you want to move forward in life

-Set Goals

-Celebrate your success as you go

-Enjoy your journey

-Accept the possible setbacks ( you will over come those)

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Mean while staying safe from COVID-19

The COV-ID 19 outbreak has caused a huge impact on our every day living. Major department stores were force to close it doors, leaving millions without jobs. Schools shutdown as well as entertainment and children are now being home schooled. Some states, and cities have put strict curfew restrictions for citizens to follow. With the New social distance guidelines and stay home orders here is a list of a few things you can do while being home.

Organize Your Home

reorganize each room in your home or apartment, use this time and get rid of old junk and clutter. Doing this will be refreshing to your mind and space of living.

Learn A New Skill

Register for a free online course and learn a new skill

Khan Academy offers instructional videos , personalized learning dashboard. Classes offered: Entrepreneurship, Finance & Capital Market.

Udacity offers professional programs for web developers, data anaylsts, mobile developers. Classes Offered: Android Development for beginners, Intro to java programming, intro to virtual reality and more .

Facebook Blueprint Training, offers free training for digital marketers.

Start an Online Business

Things has changed drastically, and the old way of living is soon to be bye bye. Technology is advancing and more and more people are being forced to work remotely online. Here are a few business ideas you can research yourself , and start your own business:

  1. Create an e-commerce store
  2. Start a Blog
  3. Virtual Assistant
  4. Create online course that sells
  5. Start a YouTube Channel
  6. Social Media Manager
  7. Content Writer
  8. Freelancer
  9. Logo designer
  10. Start an Amazon FBA business

Revisit Your Life Goal

Revisit your goals for 2020 and think about these key questions

What am I grateful for? What are my values, am I being true to them? Is my social circle influencing my life positively? Am I living a lifestyle that promotes a healthy physical,mental, and spiritual well being? Am I giving the people I value most enough of my time?

Pray More

Pray more and build or rebuild your spiritual relationship with God. If you dont know how to pray, ask God for guidance and he will lead you.

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5 Ways To Motivate Yourself This Year

At the beginning of every year we set our, New Years resolutions and goals for the new year but, how many of us actually follow them. The list below will help you go into the new year with a different approach to tackle your goals and  live the happy life you are planning.


Develop a plan for the New Year by defining your goals. Prioritize your goals by which is most important to you. Set reasonable achievable goals, followed by the action steps you will take to accomplish each goal this year. If you plan to start a business this year develop a business plan. Planning  to buy a home research the steps along with the action steps you may need to take to get in your new home. Want to have a plan to save spend less and save more, create action steps such as reducing your everyday spending habits


While the year is still at a fresh start have a goal to practice not to procrastinate on your goals and Keep a daily and weekly physical planner to jot down your weekly and daily to do tasks. Review your weekly to do’s on a daily basis this will help you stay focus on what you need to accomplish, and help prioritize your goals and tasks to completion. It takes less then 10 minutes to review your goals on a daily basis. Whatever task or goal you plan to accomplish this year commit to it. Make a commitment to complete your tasks by a certain due date.Get rid of distractions such as your phone, social media when working on your important tasks. Set a schedule time aside for family fun nights,  time for yourself, and time to work on your goals or hobbies. Scheduling out your plan and tasks will help you better organize yourself and avoid procrastinating.

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Investing in you is one of the greatest investments anyone can do. This year start a savings account for yourself if you haven’t done so already. Start a  side hustle or business, doing this can bring you great income this year. Look into  hiring a business or career coach to assist you in your journey. Take an online course an learn a new skill. Smile and be happy this year no matter what life throws at you.

Learn to value yourself ; which means fight for your happiness.” –Alyn Rand

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As you knock down your goals and accomplishments this year don’t forget to reward yourself.

  • Eat at your favorite Restaurant
  • Take a day break and plan a spa day
  • Enjoy your favorite glass of wine
  • Do a favorite activity you enjoy
  • Get a New hairstyle
  • Wear an outfit that makes you feel confident
  • Write In  Your Journal
  • Catch some beauty rest and go to bed early

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Take sometime and think about 2019 lessons, what went well last year? What surprised you? What did 2019 teach you? Use what you learned from last year to grow this year in 2020. What needs to be left behind? toxic relationships, bad habits, negative mindset. Think about where you want to be? How will you  make changes to help your grow and what action steps would you need to take to get their?

Press forward, do not stop. do not linger in your journey, but strive for the mark set before you.” – George Whitfield