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10 Positive Affirmations to change your life

I am worthy

My possibilities are endless

My thoughts become my reality

I am worthy

I believe in myself

I am talented and intelligent

I am becoming more confident everyday

I am grateful for what I have

I am free of worry and regret

I will not worry about things I can’t control

I will be kind to myself and others

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4 steps for attracting the success you want

Change your Mindset

Attracting success starts with your mindset, you have to shift your mindset to a more positive approach. Start thinking more positive thoughts about yourself. Once you start thinking more positive thoughts about your self you start training your mind to attract the success you want.


With a change mindset you know that you can achieve the things you desire in life. ” If you believe you can achieve”. You have to believe in the success and the things you want in your life. Believe that the things that you want in life you already have received. Whether its a new career , a new home, a new business.

Plan It

Plan your vison for success write it down on paper, keep a daily journal, create a vision board. Writing down your goals and plans for your success will allow you to see your vison unfold right in front of you. ” We don’t plan to fail, we fail to plan”-Denzel Washington. Plan everything you want your success to look like for you so that you may achieve everything you want.

Manifest It

Manifesting your success is more about defining your goals. Define what your success will look like for you. What does success mean for you? Use a journal to think about this and write it down. Visualize your success in mind. Take a few minutes a day of quiet time to meditate on your success. Live and move day to day as if your success has already come true.

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5 Tips for unlocking your life purpose

  1. Develop a growth mindset

Having a growth mindset helps you to become a better version of yourself. Embrace your failures and learn from them. You might be thinking how do you even develop a growth mindset? Developing a growth mindset can be done by reading self-development books daily, Listening to an educational podcast, daily pray and meditation.

2. Create a personal vision statement

Creating a personal vision statement for yourself can help you find balance in your life, and focus on your goals that are most important to you. A vision statement lets you make better decisions when aligning your goals and values which will also help you stay motivated. Once you can align your goals and values in your vision statement it will be easier for you to start taking steps to unlocking your life purpose.

3. Give Back

When you give back it can help you develop your sense of meaning and purpose in life. Remember when you help others you are also helping yourself. You can give back by volunteering in your local community, or donate your money to a cause that aligns with you. Spread a little happiness just by performing random acts of kindness.

4. Spend time with people who inspire you

If you spend time with people who are positive and purpose-driven you will most likely be inspired to have the same mindset. You may even discover your purpose by spending time with these groups of people. Evaluate your relationships and make sure you are surrounding yourself with positive people who inspire you and lift you up.

5. Turn your pain into purpose

We all face challenges in life. Overcoming your challenges in life shapes who you will become. Your challenges give you your unique strengths and perspectives. Some people find their purpose in helping others that faced similar struggles they have overcome. Some people choose a career as a life coach, motivational speaker. How you turn your pain into purpose is up to you.

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Daily Self Care Routine

Balancing school, work, business and family can be stressful and difficult at times. That’s why I believe it’s very important to practice some type of relaxing self care routine for yourself. Your self care routine can be as big or as small as you want it to be, so don’t stress about the amount of time you spend on your routines or how often you do them. Remember it’s all about you and what makes you feel relieved and stress free while caring for yourself. Check out my list below on what I do on a daily/ weekly basis.

Drink Hot Tea Daily

A hot cup of green tea always helps me relax on a daily basis, Its very soothing and good for your body. I drank a cup of green tea in the morning on my way to work. Some evenings I may drank a detox tea which helps relieves your body from unwanted detoxes in your body.

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Exercise Daily

Work out daily to help relieve stress and clear your mind. I always say 20 minutes a day of will keep the stress way, Besides being health is wealth.

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Weekly Skin Care Routine

Create a weekly skincare routine I usually exfoliate my skin every Sunday along with a nice facial clay mask. Taking care of your skin on a weekly basis or how often as you want helps you to not only feel relaxed but minimizes wrinkles and fine lines that can be caused from stressed.

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Feed your mind daily with positive knowledge

Read a book daily or listen to a self motivating podcast.

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Daily Relaxing bath

Unwind and relax before bed with a nice hot bubble bath.

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35 Life Lessons I learned in 35 years

I started this post at 33 Life lessons I learned in 33 years. ( This post will be updated yearly)

1. Every success adventure must include  God otherwise it will not succeed

2. Your never to old to keep learning

3. No matter how hard you work in life make sure you practice self care or otherwise you can put yourself on the edge of a  burn out.

4. Love yourself first.

5. Forget about the bad and focus on the good.

6. It’s okay to walk away from toxic environments, relationships, friendships, family, they will only keep you down, and  hold you back from moving ahead in your life and success.

7. Be thankful for what you have and  don’t worry  about what you don’t have.

8. The more you give in life the more you will receive.

9. What you surround yourself around is what you will  become.

10. It’s okay to be friendly and say hello to others in public

11. Investing in yourself is the best choice to make in life.

12. Embrace your challenges & failures they prepare you for life.

13.Keep your faith when facing challenges in life

14. Go hard to accomplish your goals in life so you don’t live with any regrets about why you didn’t go after your dreams.

15. Never Settle for less then what you know your worth.

16. Forgive today because tomorrow is not promised.

17. Anything worth having doesn’t come easy.

18. You only get one life so give yourself the best healthiest and happiest life you possibly can

19. It doesn’t matter how, when, or where you begin all that matters is that you start

20. Money will never bring you true happiness

21.  Everyone is not meant to tag along the same journey  as you.

22. Be Patient with life and it’s unusual events

23.  Take Care of your Family 

24. Help as many people as possible

25. Excuses are for losers and failures

26. Never give up on anything you love doing

27. Your thoughts are powerful and so is your tongue, think and speak positive things

28. Still be kind to others who do you wrong

29. Grudges are a complete waste of happiness.

30. Always follow your gut instinct  9/10 your instincts are right.

31. Pray daily and stay humbled

32.  Love is more then a feeling its a choice and it starts within you.

33.  If your not happy in any situation rather if its a job, relationship, friendship, career. Kick that to the left and move on.

34. You only get one mother cherish her because when she is gone their is no return.

35. Changing your mindset and not thinking the way you did in your 20s is not stupid it’s growth.